Melissa and Courtney talk with Emily Jensen about how to broaden our understanding of worship to think of it as a response to God’s worth. Worship is more than singing on Sunday morning, but corporate worship is an essential part of the worship God desires. They talk about the role our feelings should play in how we think about worship and how to offer up the mundane moments of our lives to the glory of God.

Resources Mentioned:

• Worship (Disciplines of Devotion) by Emily A. Jensen
• “God Moves In a Mysterious Way”
• “Holy Forever”
• “We Rest on Thee”

Related Resources:

• A Biblical Theology of Worship
• Leading Worship Is Worship
• Gospel-Shaped Worship

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. What is a hymn or worship song that has encouraged you recently?

2. Before listening to this episode, how would you have defined worship? How does the definition that worship is “our response to who God is and what he has done” expand or challenge your thinking?

3. What are some everyday moments in your life that could become opportunities for worship? What could that look like for you?

4. What’s the difference between using worship to change our feelings and worshiping because God is worthy, regardless of how we feel?

5. What has helped you approach worship, even when you feel anxious, distracted, or spiritually dry?

6. What modern-day idols compete for our worship?

7. How does the image of a child offering imperfect efforts to a loving parent shape the way you think about your own worship?

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Courtney and Melissa talk about how to recognize and repent of the ways we may be relying on self-righteousness rather than the righteousness of Christ. They talk about tribalism, what happens when debatable issues are treated as primary, and how, paradoxically, the areas where we feel despair may point to areas of pride or self-righteousness in our lives.

Related Resources:

• Finding the Right Hills to Die On by Gavin Ortlund
• The Sticky Sin of Always Being Right
• Self-Righteousness Wears Many Disguises

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. What are some things that come to mind (such as good practices or habits) that can quietly become a source of pride?

2. In what ways do you notice self-righteousness creep into Christian community in subtle or socially acceptable ways?

3. Are there particular areas of obedience or conviction where you feel tempted to compare yourself with others? What might that reveal about your heart?

4. In Philippians 3:4–10, Paul calls his impressive spiritual résumé “rubbish” compared with knowing Christ. What does this passage teach us about the difference between our righteousness and Christ’s righteousness?

5. Why do you think it can be so easy to trust in our own efforts rather than resting in Christ’s righteousness?

6. What are some red flags in your thoughts, attitudes, or conversations that might signal self-righteousness creeping in?

7. How can Christian communities encourage holiness and obedience without creating an atmosphere of pride, comparison, or tribalism?

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Courtney and Melissa talk with New Testament scholar (and Melissa’s husband) Mike Kruger about the excellent evidence that Jesus physically rose from the dead and the difference that makes for our lives.

Dr. Kruger points out that because Jesus predicted his own resurrection, it validates his claims to be the Son of God and the Messiah. Dr. Kruger highlights the resurrection's transformative effects on early Christians, including their willingness to be martyred for their faith.

Related Resources:

• Did the Resurrection Really Happen? (TGC Hard Questions) by Timothy Paul Jones
• 3 Reasons to Believe in the Resurrection
• Why Is the Resurrection Good News?

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. Why do you think the resurrection continues to be questioned or dismissed in our culture?

2. Why is the resurrection not just one doctrine among many but central to the Christian faith? What would Christianity lose if the resurrection weren't true?

3. What evidence of Christ’s resurrection is particularly compelling to you?

4. Read 1 Corinthians 15 together. Paul says that if Christ hasn't been raised, our faith is futile—but if he has been raised, everything changes. As a result, what should change in

• our view of suffering?
• our courage in evangelism?
• our fight against sin?
• our hope in death?

5. How does the knowledge that Christ is alive and reigning without rival make a difference in your life right now?

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To celebrate the first birthday of The Deep Dish, Courtney and Melissa welcome special surprise guests to answer tough questions sent in by listeners. They talk about the difference between shame and the Spirit's conviction, how to seek advice about a conflict without gossiping, how to sit with the tension of a biblical text, how to keep the Sabbath, and more. 

Resources Mentioned:

• Remembering Death Teaches Us to Live
• The Dish on Gossip
• Becoming Good Stewards of Our Bodies
• Conversations with God
• When You Want to Change Your Husband

Related Resources:

• Sabbath Rest (Disciplines of Devotion series) by Megan Hill
• Women of the Word by Jen Wilkin
• Gospel Parenting During the Little Years

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Courtney and Melissa discuss helpful practices they’ve used in their prayer lives, including developing regular rhythms, alternating prayer with Scripture reading, and incorporating confession of sin as a part of personal prayer. They talk about how to be faithful to a promise to pray for someone else and how to make prayer part of a friendship.

Rather than speaking from a place of prescriptive legalism, Melissa and Courtney speak with infectious enthusiasm about the possibilities of a rich and growing prayer life.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Deep Dish: Conversations with God
• Lord, Teach Me to Pray in 28 Days by Kay Arthur
• 5 Things to Pray for Your Kids by Melissa Kruger
• 5 Things to Pray for Your Spouse by Melissa Kruger
• The Power of a Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian
• Parenting with Hope by Melissa Kruger
• I’m Praying for You: 40 Days of Praying the Bible for Someone Who Is Suffering by Nancy Guthrie
• Piercing Heaven: Prayers of the Puritans edited by Robert Elmer
• Every Moment Holy series

Related Resources

• Prayer (Disciplines of Devotion series) by Courtney Reissig
• In Prayer, Structure Serves Spontaneity
• 7 Ways to Fight Distraction in Prayer

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. Do you have a routine for prayer? When and where do you usually pray?

2. What strategies do you use to organize your prayer time and guard against distractions?

3. How has God used prayer to rightly orient you toward seeking his will above your own?

4. When have you struggled to persevere in prayer or to accept an answer to prayer?

5. What benefits have you experienced as a result of praying with others (family, friends, or ministry partners)?

6. What next step will you take in your practice of prayer? What do you want to start, stop, or continue doing?

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Melissa and Courtney talk with Jen Oshman about the lie that our worth is measured by what we possess. They discuss why we try to fill a God-shaped hole with earthly things and how to recognize materialism in our lives.

They talk about strategies to combat materialism, including inviting trusted friends into your financial decisions, seeking to be as generous to others as possible, and setting your heart on heavenly possessions rather than earthly ones.

Resources Mentioned:

• Heaven by Randy Alcorn
• The Treasure Principle by Randy Alcorn

Related Resources:

• Materialism, Money, and Me Culture
• Materialism Is Easy to Decry and Hard to Avoid
• Covetousness: The Sin Behind the Sin

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. In what ways do you see materialism connected to deeper desires in your heart? How might you be settling for lesser gifts instead of storing up treasure in heaven?

2. What types of things most often capture your attention or stir up desire (e.g., clothes, home decor, technology, experiences)?

3. What rhythms or practices (daily, weekly, or monthly) could help you become more mindful of how you consume, spend, and steward what God has given you?

4. Share a time when you experienced God’s abundant provision. How does remembering his care grow your desire to trust him and reflect his generosity?

5. What Scriptures or truths about God’s character help reorient your heart when you feel the pull toward “more”?

6. How could other believers help you with accountability or input in the areas of spending, consumption, and giving?

7. What’s one next step you would like to take based on what you’ve heard and discussed today?

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Courtney Doctor talks with Colleen Chao about how her faith has grown and flourished through living with a terminal cancer diagnosis. They discuss the difficulty of knowing she may not live to see her son grow up, what keeps her clinging to Jesus, and what excites her about the life to come. Colleen expounds a rich theology of suffering accompanied by contagious joy in the Lord.

Resources Mentioned:

• She Laughs at the Days to Come (Colleen’s story)

Related Resources:

• The Secret to Living Hope in the Face of Death
• How to Help When Cancer Strikes Your Church
• Experiencing God in Your Affliction
• Review: "Out of the Shadow World" by Colleen Chao

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. How do you practice “setting your mind on things above” amid ordinary life or in seasons of suffering?

2. What circumstances or experiences have made you more aware of your limitations?

3. How have you experienced the closeness of your Shepherd in dark or fearful seasons? In what specific ways has his nearness been your good?

4. What does it mean to think of suffering as something you’re “entrusted with”? How does that perspective shape the way you steward hard experiences?

5. As you think about eternity with God, what excites or comforts you most about the life to come?

6. What does it look like to entrust those we love most to God when the future feels uncertain?

7. What truths from God’s Word have most strengthened or steadied you in seasons of suffering?

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Courtney and Melissa talk with Christine Hoover about why we need friends and how to make them. They discuss how to get over the awkwardness of walking into a room where you don’t know anyone, why our friendships may shift in different life stages, how our friends shape us, and how an idealized view of friendship (where your friends never disappoint you) runs counter to the gospel.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

• The Hard Work of Lifelong Friendships

RELATED RESOURCES:

• Want to Grow in Wisdom? You Need Gospel Friends.
• Why Ministry Partners Are Better than Instagram Friends
• How to Be the Friend You’ve Always Wanted
• Messy Beautiful Friendship by Christine K. Hoover

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. How has your experience of making friends changed in different seasons of your life? Which seasons have been most challenging, and why?

2. In what ways are your current friendships gospel-centered? Where do you sense room for growth?

3. Where has God placed you—at church, at work, at home, or in your community—to notice and include those who may feel overlooked or alone?

4. What qualities of a faithful, Christlike friend are you asking God to grow in you right now?

5. How does the gospel speak to the fears or expectations that hinder our friendships?

6. How are you intentionally prioritizing fellowship with Christ? How does your relationship with him shape what you offer in your friendships?

7. What next step is God calling you to take in your pursuit of gospel-centered friendship?

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Courtney and Melissa talk with Jen Wilkin about how they each related to their siblings while growing up, how those relationships have changed over the years, and how to foster a healthy relationship with adult siblings.

In this laughter-filled conversation, they talk about how they dealt with conflict among their own children, words of wisdom they wished they’d heard sooner, and how to encourage kindness and love between siblings throughout their lives.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

• I Am the Light of the World (Jen’s message at TGCW24)
• Being Mortal  by Atul Gawande

RELATED RESOURCES:

• Help! My Kids Won’t Stop Fighting
• Raising an Alien Child
• How to Handle Family Conflict This Holiday Season

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. What was your relationship with your siblings like as you were growing up? How has it developed over the years?

2. What patterns of dealing with conflict do you see in your family (past or present)?

3. What has God taught you about conflict resolution through your sibling relationships?

4. How do you see your children (or children you’re close to) developing friendships in their sibling relationships? What’s challenging about this? How would you like to encourage this more?

5. As you interact with your adult siblings, in what ways might you be reverting to childhood roles? How can you guard against this?

6. How are your siblings navigating (or planning to navigate) care for aging parents? What advice from this episode was helpful as you consider how to do this well?

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Melissa and Courtney talk with Raechel Myers and Amanda Bible Williams about how they learned to love the Bible. They discuss both the challenges and rewards of studying Scripture, memorizing it, and learning to interpret it in community. They explain the difference in thinking the Bible is written to you and understanding that it was written for you.

Resources Mentioned: 

• She Reads Truth
• The Bible Is for You: A Devotional Journey Through Every Book of the Bible Edited by Raechel Myers and Amanda Bible Williams
• Daily Light

Related Content:

• How to Study the Bible 
• Keep Reading Your Bible, Even If You Don’t Understand It
• TGC Course: Mining God’s Word

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. In a few words, describe your current attitude toward and practice of engaging with God’s Word.

2. How has your approach to reading and studying Scripture changed over time? What habits or rhythms are helping you prioritize it in your current season?

3. How did this conversation deepen your understanding of the unique nature and power of God’s Word?

4. How has your understanding of God grown as you’ve spent time in his Word?

5. How has Scripture ministered to you in difficult circumstances? How is his Word ministering to you currently?

6. In what ways has studying the Bible alongside others encouraged or shaped you?

7. What’s one thing you want to start, stop, or change in your practice of engaging with Scripture?

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Courtney and Melissa talk about the gap between our high expectations for the holidays and the disappointment we often feel in others or in ourselves. They discuss how to be pro-active in preparing our hearts to hope in the Lord rather than in perfection, how to bear the fruit of the Spirit while also meeting the practical needs of those around us, and how inviting nonfamily into family holidays can bring great blessing. Whether you are excited about Thanksgiving and Christmas or tired just thinking about them, listen to this conversation and be encouraged!

Resources Mentioned: 

• 6 Ways to Prepare for a Holiday That Will Disappoint (printable pdf) https://media.thegospelcoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/10111351/6-Ways-to-Prepare-for-a-Holiday-That-Will-Disappoint-Printable.pdf
• The Gift of All Gifts by Melissa Kruger
• Unto Us: 25 Advent Devotions about the Messiah
• The Weary World Rejoices: Daily Devotions for Advent

Related Content:

• This Thanksgiving, Come to the Table
• How Not to Gossip During the Holidays
• Preparing for Advent Season

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. How have your expectations for the holidays changed over time?

2. In what ways can unrealistic expectations set us up for disappointment? What helps you hold your expectations in a healthy way?

3. What’s one thing you’re especially looking forward to and one thing you anticipate may be challenging this holiday season?

4. What rhythms or practices help you cultivate gratitude—both during the holidays and throughout the rest of the year?

5. What conversations or interactions do you want to intentionally prioritize this holiday season, and what might that look like in practice?

6. How can your church, small group, or family support those who are experiencing grief, loneliness, or unmet expectations this season?

7. Which fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22–23) do you most want God to grow in you this holiday season, and why?

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