- 52 minutes 19 secondsHow to Flirt So Good She Can’t Stop Thinking About You (Live Coaching with Evan)You see a woman you’d love to meet… and you freeze, overthinking the “perfect” line. And you’re left kicking yourself. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and best-selling author Connell Barrett helps his client Evan flirt so good that women can’t stop thinking about him! From bold openers to “wolfish” eye contact that women love, you’ll learn how to create instant sparks with women.
07:45: How to Get Out of Your Head & Meet Women at Your Local Bar
10:46: Approaching Isn’t Creepy—But Doing THIS Is
19:53: What Stops You From Approaching Women
40:32: “How To Spark Attraction With Eye Contact
55:01: Why Women HATE “Interview Mode”
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GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: [email protected] (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)7 May 2026, 6:55 am - 1 hour 5 minutesHow to Date in Your Social Circle—without Being “That Creepy Guy” (Live Coaching with A.J.)You want to date women in your social circle, but you don’t want to be “that creepy guy.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client A.J. navigate meeting women in social groups. You’ll learn how to read the room and know what to say, without crossing any lines. Listen now—your future girlfriend might be in your yoga class, waiting for you to say hello.
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GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: [email protected] (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)5 May 2026, 6:40 am - 32 minutes 41 secondsJUST. SAY. THIS. Your Cheat Sheet to Stop Freezing and Start Flirting in 7 Scary Dating MomentsIf you struggle with what to say to women, this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” is your flirting cheat sheet. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you exact lines to use in 7 tricky dating situations. Plus, he shares his flirting philosophy (“Flirting is playing”) so you can stop freezing and start confidently attracting wonderful women.
Episode Highlights:
02:25: What to Say at the Gym (without Being Creepy)
05:40: The Playful Dating App Opener Women Love
09:20: What to Text Her When She Goes Quiet
14:27: How to Ask Her Out and Get the Date
17:36: The Easy Way to Never Run Out of Things to Say
21:45: The Simple Sentence that Frees You from the Friend Zone
26:33: Just Say This… to Get the First Kiss
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GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email: [email protected] (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)30 April 2026, 7:25 am - 38 minutes 52 secondsYou Want to Approach—But Anxiety Stops You. The 7 Steps to Confidently Meet Women AnywhereYou see quality women you’d love to meet—but anxiety gets in the way. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett lays out the 7 mileposts that take you from freezing up to confidently getting numbers and dates. Listen to learn why you’re stuck—and what it takes to meet attractive women in real life.
Episode Highlights:
04:15: Milepost 1: Destroy Your Limiting Belief
13:13: Milepost 2: Approach Often (Reps, Baby!)
16:45: Milepost 3: Reach the the 2-Minute Mark
21:27: Milepost 4: Low Anxiety, High Confidence
23:41: Milepost 5: Getting Numbers & Dates (Results!)
28:25: Milepost 6: Confident, Fearless Approaching
31:27: Milepost 7: Your Amazing Outcome: Confidence, Dates, and Meeting Your Dream Girlfriend
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GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email: [email protected] (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)28 April 2026, 6:05 am - 35 minutes 48 seconds47 Flirting Tips So You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say with WomenIf you struggle with what to say and how to flirt, help has arrived. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you 47 simple, actionable ways to spark attraction with women, without cheesy gimmicks. Learn how to be playful, authentic, and confident, so you’ll never run out of things to say—on dates, over text, or when approaching women.
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NOT SURE HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email “Free Book!” to: [email protected]16 April 2026, 7:00 am - 41 minutes 37 secondsThe “Slime Effect”: 7 Flirting Mistakes that Creep Women Out—and What to Say InsteadDo you feel clueless about flirting, and worry that one wrong move might creep her out? On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down 7 flirting mistakes that kill attraction, including one psychologists call the “Slime Effect” (11:12). You’ll also learn exactly what to say to confidently create chemistry. Listen now.
DO YOU STRUGGLE WITH HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CALL TO LEARN HOW CONNELL’S 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: DatingTransformation.com14 April 2026, 6:30 am - 41 minutes 51 secondsYou Like Her, But You’re Trapped in the Friend Zone. Flirt Like This to Escape (Live Coaching with Matt)Things seem to be going well—and then she says, “You’re nice, but I don’t feel a connection.” Friend zone. In this live coaching session of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his client Matt to work through this exact issue. Connell breaks down how flirting actually works and shares a simple fix you can make so women start seeing you as more than just a friend.
BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO SEE HOW HIS 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:DatingTransformation.com7 April 2026, 7:03 pm - 26 minutes 40 secondsWhat’s Your Flirting Level? Why It’s the Secret to Less Ghosting and More Second DatesThere are 6 Levels of Flirting—and if you don’t get second dates, you’re likely stuck at a lower one. So what’s your flirting level? And how do you level up? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett brings the 6 Levels of Flirting to life through real-life stories. It’s time to stop overthinking, flirt with charm, and get a lot more second dates.
Episode Highlights:
02:24: The Fun Role-play Approach that Sparks Instant Interest
06:53: Ben’s Bold “I Want to Kiss You” First-Date Moment
11:15: How Connell Finally Escaped the Friend Zone
15:55: The Secret to Making Emotional Connections on Dates
18:45: How Trevor Ignited Attraction with Becca
BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: DatingTransformation.com2 April 2026, 8:03 pm - 26 minutes 51 secondsI Was That Creepy Guy: 5 Brutal Mistakes That Pushed Women AwayBeing creepy is every man’s worst fear in dating. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares five moments when he accidentally creeped women out. Learn what went wrong, why it happened, and how to avoid these mistakes so you can flirt with confidence, authenticity and charm.
Episode Highlights:
01:45: I Tried Being a Jerk… and Got Ice Water Dumped On Me
04:39: She Looked At Me and Said, “Does This Tactic Actually Work?”
07:45: One Crass Joke and the Whole Table Went Silent
12:05: I Handed Her a Note and Literally Ran Away
19:07: She Came Over with Wine, and I Totally Blew It
BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: DatingTransformation.com24 March 2026, 6:50 am - 23 minutes 58 secondsThe 6 Lies About Dating Apps That Cost You Quality MatchesIf dating apps don’t work for you, you likely assume that you’re the problem. You’re not. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down six common lies that sabotage your results. Get ready to fix your profile, attract better matches, and finally turn swipes into dates.
Episode Highlights:
01:39: Lie #1: You’re Just Not Attractive Enough
05:00: Lie #2: You Have to Be Really Good-Looking
08:03: Lie #3: You Need Amazing Openers
11:21: Lie #4: You Need to Say a Lot in Your Bio
14:10: Lie #5: More Matches = More Dates
20:02: Lie #6: Dating Apps Want You to Find Love
BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:DatingTransformation.com19 March 2026, 1:51 am - 28 minutes 12 secondsHe Wrote WHAT On His Bio? Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts Cringe Online Dating ProfilesOnline dating is a battlefield, and some bios are self-inflicted wounds. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett roasts a dozen of the worst online dating bios. Your profile sounds like Shakespeare compared to the guy who tells women “I want to taste the yum yum.” Plus, Connell shares a dating app strategy you can use today to stand out in your city and finally get some good matches. Listen now!
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
01:10: How to Make Your Profile a “Unicorn” in Your City for More Matches
14:35: Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts the Worst Online Dating Bios Ever
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