• 52 minutes 19 seconds
    How to Flirt So Good She Can’t Stop Thinking About You (Live Coaching with Evan)
    You see a woman you’d love to meet… and you freeze, overthinking the “perfect” line. And you’re left kicking yourself. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and best-selling author Connell Barrett helps his client Evan flirt so good that women can’t stop thinking about him! From bold openers to “wolfish” eye contact that women love, you’ll learn how to create instant sparks with women.

    07:45: How to Get Out of Your Head & Meet Women at Your Local Bar

    10:46: Approaching Isn’t Creepy—But Doing THIS Is

    19:53: What Stops You From Approaching Women

    40:32: “How To Spark Attraction With Eye Contact

    55:01: Why Women HATE “Interview Mode”

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    7 May 2026, 6:55 am
  • 1 hour 5 minutes
    How to Date in Your Social Circle—without Being “That Creepy Guy” (Live Coaching with A.J.)
    You want to date women in your social circle, but you don’t want to be “that creepy guy.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client A.J. navigate meeting women in social groups. You’ll learn how to read the room and know what to say, without crossing any lines. Listen now—your future girlfriend might be in your yoga class, waiting for you to say hello.

    STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL:DatingTransformation.com

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    5 May 2026, 6:40 am
  • 32 minutes 41 seconds
    JUST. SAY. THIS. Your Cheat Sheet to Stop Freezing and Start Flirting in 7 Scary Dating Moments
    If you struggle with what to say to women, this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” is your flirting cheat sheet. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you exact lines to use in 7 tricky dating situations. Plus, he shares his flirting philosophy (“Flirting is playing”) so you can stop freezing and start confidently attracting wonderful women.

    Episode Highlights:

    02:25: What to Say at the Gym (without Being Creepy)

    05:40: The Playful Dating App Opener Women Love

    09:20: What to Text Her When She Goes Quiet

    14:27: How to Ask Her Out and Get the Date

    17:36: The Easy Way to Never Run Out of Things to Say

    21:45: The Simple Sentence that Frees You from the Friend Zone

    26:33: Just Say This… to Get the First Kiss

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    30 April 2026, 7:25 am
  • 38 minutes 52 seconds
    You Want to Approach—But Anxiety Stops You. The 7 Steps to Confidently Meet Women Anywhere
    You see quality women you’d love to meet—but anxiety gets in the way. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett lays out the 7 mileposts that take you from freezing up to confidently getting numbers and dates. Listen to learn why you’re stuck—and what it takes to meet attractive women in real life.

    Episode Highlights:

    04:15: Milepost 1: Destroy Your Limiting Belief

    13:13: Milepost 2: Approach Often (Reps, Baby!)

    16:45: Milepost 3: Reach the the 2-Minute Mark

    21:27: Milepost 4: Low Anxiety, High Confidence

    23:41: Milepost 5: Getting Numbers & Dates (Results!)

    28:25: Milepost 6: Confident, Fearless Approaching

    31:27: Milepost 7: Your Amazing Outcome: Confidence, Dates, and Meeting Your Dream Girlfriend

    TIRED OF FREEZING UP AROUND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL:DatingTransformation.com

    GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email: [email protected] (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
    28 April 2026, 6:05 am
  • 35 minutes 48 seconds
    47 Flirting Tips So You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say with Women
    If you struggle with what to say and how to flirt, help has arrived. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you 47 simple, actionable ways to spark attraction with women, without cheesy gimmicks. Learn how to be playful, authentic, and confident, so you’ll never run out of things to say—on dates, over text, or when approaching women.


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    16 April 2026, 7:00 am
  • 41 minutes 37 seconds
    The “Slime Effect”: 7 Flirting Mistakes that Creep Women Out—and What to Say Instead
    Do you feel clueless about flirting, and worry that one wrong move might creep her out? On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down 7 flirting mistakes that kill attraction, including one psychologists call the “Slime Effect” (11:12). You’ll also learn exactly what to say to confidently create chemistry. Listen now.

    DO YOU STRUGGLE WITH HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CALL TO LEARN HOW CONNELL’S 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: DatingTransformation.com
    14 April 2026, 6:30 am
  • 41 minutes 51 seconds
    You Like Her, But You’re Trapped in the Friend Zone. Flirt Like This to Escape (Live Coaching with Matt)
    Things seem to be going well—and then she says, “You’re nice, but I don’t feel a connection.” Friend zone. In this live coaching session of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his client Matt to work through this exact issue. Connell breaks down how flirting actually works and shares a simple fix you can make so women start seeing you as more than just a friend.

    BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO SEE HOW HIS 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:DatingTransformation.com
    7 April 2026, 7:03 pm
  • 26 minutes 40 seconds
    What’s Your Flirting Level? Why It’s the Secret to Less Ghosting and More Second Dates
    There are 6 Levels of Flirting—and if you don’t get second dates, you’re likely stuck at a lower one. So what’s your flirting level? And how do you level up? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett brings the 6 Levels of Flirting to life through real-life stories. It’s time to stop overthinking, flirt with charm, and get a lot more second dates.

    Episode Highlights:

    02:24: The Fun Role-play Approach that Sparks Instant Interest

    06:53: Ben’s Bold “I Want to Kiss You” First-Date Moment

    11:15: How Connell Finally Escaped the Friend Zone

    15:55: The Secret to Making Emotional Connections on Dates

    18:45: How Trevor Ignited Attraction with Becca

    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: DatingTransformation.com
    2 April 2026, 8:03 pm
  • 26 minutes 51 seconds
    I Was That Creepy Guy: 5 Brutal Mistakes That Pushed Women Away
    Being creepy is every man’s worst fear in dating. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares five moments when he accidentally creeped women out. Learn what went wrong, why it happened, and how to avoid these mistakes so you can flirt with confidence, authenticity and charm.

    Episode Highlights:

    01:45: I Tried Being a Jerk… and Got Ice Water Dumped On Me

    04:39: She Looked At Me and Said, “Does This Tactic Actually Work?”

    07:45: One Crass Joke and the Whole Table Went Silent

    12:05: I Handed Her a Note and Literally Ran Away

    19:07: She Came Over with Wine, and I Totally Blew It

    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: DatingTransformation.com
    24 March 2026, 6:50 am
  • 23 minutes 58 seconds
    The 6 Lies About Dating Apps That Cost You Quality Matches
    If dating apps don’t work for you, you likely assume that you’re the problem. You’re not. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down six common lies that sabotage your results. Get ready to fix your profile, attract better matches, and finally turn swipes into dates.

    Episode Highlights:

    01:39: Lie #1: You’re Just Not Attractive Enough

    05:00: Lie #2: You Have to Be Really Good-Looking

    08:03: Lie #3: You Need Amazing Openers

    11:21: Lie #4: You Need to Say a Lot in Your Bio

    14:10: Lie #5: More Matches = More Dates

    20:02: Lie #6: Dating Apps Want You to Find Love

    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:DatingTransformation.com
    19 March 2026, 1:51 am
  • 28 minutes 12 seconds
    He Wrote WHAT On His Bio? Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts Cringe Online Dating Profiles
    Online dating is a battlefield, and some bios are self-inflicted wounds. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett roasts a dozen of the worst online dating bios. Your profile sounds like Shakespeare compared to the guy who tells women “I want to taste the yum yum.” Plus, Connell shares a dating app strategy you can use today to stand out in your city and finally get some good matches. Listen now!

    EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

    01:10: How to Make Your Profile a “Unicorn” in Your City for More Matches

    14:35: Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts the Worst Online Dating Bios Ever

    BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 DATING COACHING: DatingTransformation.com
    10 March 2026, 9:45 pm
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