Do you ever feel "behind" in dating?

Do you value compatibility over chemistry?

Dating in your 30s is a completely new experience—one that comes with unique challenges, fresh perspectives, and a deeper sense of self-awareness. Today, Jay unpacks the most common misconceptions about dating at this stage in life and shares empowering insights on how to navigate relationships with confidence and clarity. He begins by tackling the biggest myth that holds so many people back—the belief that they’re “too late” or “falling behind” in their search for love.

Jay also explores the key differences between dating in your 20s versus your 30s. While your 20s are a period of self-discovery—figuring out deal-breakers, learning from mistakes, and often getting caught up in dating games—your 30s bring a new level of clarity and intention. No more ignoring red flags, no more prioritizing chemistry over compatibility, and no more settling for less than you deserve. Emotional maturity becomes the foundation of lasting relationships, and by your 30s, you’ve developed the wisdom and confidence to approach love in a way that truly aligns with your values.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Overcome the Fear of Being "Too Late" in Dating

How to Stop Settling and Start Prioritizing What You Deserve

How to Stop Playing Dating Games and Be Direct About What You Want

How to Choose Peace Over Drama in Relationships

How to Approach Dating in Your 30s with Confidence and Clarity

No matter where you are on your dating journey, remember that you are not behind—you are exactly where you need to be. Your 30s are not a deadline; they are an opportunity to date with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:00 The Biggest Dating Myth

02:55 Why Your 30s Are Powerful

03:27 Society’s False Timelines

05:00 Emotional Maturity in Relationships

06:11 Lessons from Dating in Your 20s

08:41 No More Dating Games

10:27 Trusting Your Gut & Red Flags

14:47 Compatibility vs. Chemistry

15:20 Choosing Peace Over Drama

16:58 The Pain of Settling vs. Being Single

19:38 Healing After Breakups

22:22 Dating with Confidence in Your 30s

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Have you ever been fired from a job?

Did it end up leading you to something better?

Today, Jay sits down with comedian, podcaster, and former reality TV star Hannah Berner to explore her unconventional journey—from competitive tennis to stand-up comedy. Hannah shares how she’s mastered the art of pivoting, embracing change, and knowing when to walk away from something that no longer serves her.

Hannah opens up about her struggles with performance anxiety during her tennis career and the surprising sense of calm she found on stage. Through humor and self-reflection, Hannah shares how life’s setbacks—like getting fired from reality TV—turned out to be unexpected blessings that helped her find her true purpose. 

Jay and Hannah also discuss the importance of trusting your instincts, quitting with confidence, and listening to your body when it tells you something isn’t right. Things get personal as Hannah opens up about love, marriage, and self-worth, sharing the importance of relationships should feel effortless and not draining. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Overcome Performance Anxiety

How to Trust Your Instincts in Big Decisions

How to Create a Career That Aligns with Your Personality

How to Navigate the Challenges of Marriage and Long-Term Commitment

How to Let Go of External Validation and Focus on Self-Worth

How to Handle Criticism and Keep Moving Forward

Whether you’re questioning your career, your relationships, or your purpose, trust that walking away from what doesn’t serve you is just as powerful as chasing what does.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:38 The Right Athletic Attitude

03:02 Becoming an Expert Quitter

06:40 Coach Yourself Out of Negative Self-Talk

12:18 Performance Anxiety

15:06 Moving Towards Your Calm

16:32 Finding Your Own Comfort Zone

20:06 Letting Go of Ego

24:37 People-Pleasing Tendencies

29:09 Fired by Bravo

30:46 Self Confidence or Self Worth?

31:30 A Different Kind of Revenge Mindset

34:31 Loving Your Own Story

38:44 Get Good at Planning Personal Breaks

41:07 Dealing with the Craziest Rumors 

42:22 Mom Intuition is Real

46:34 Emotional Unavailability in Relationships

49:59 Modern Dating Struggles 

53:36 Surprising Challenges in Marriage

56:50 What’s Your Love Language?

01:00:20 Find Your Superpower

01:05:43 A Message to Your Younger Self

01:07:54 How Do You Chase Your Dreams?

01:12:08 Hannah on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Hannah Berner | Website

Hannah Berner | Snapchat

Hannah Berner | Instagram 

Hannah Berner | TikTok 

Hannah Berner | X

How to Giggle

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What’s one thing that’s been stressing you out lately?

Have you noticed any physical signs of stress in your body?

Today, Jay with renowned neuroscientist, professor, and author Dr. Wendy Suzuki to explore the science of anxiety, stress, and resilience. Wendy is the author of Good Anxiety: Harnessing the Power of the Most Misunderstood Emotion and Healthy Brain, Happy Life, where she explores how movement, mindfulness, and positive habits can enhance brain function. 

Jay and Wendy discuss the physiological effects of chronic stress, how it impacts key brain regions like the hippocampus and prefrontal cortex, and why movement, breathwork, and mindfulness are essential for improving brain health. They also examine why so many people ignore their own stress cues and how simple daily habits can rewire the brain for greater well-being.

Wendy opens up about her personal experience with grief, explaining that the flip side of anxiety and grief is deep love. She shares why embracing these emotions, rather than avoiding them, is key to healing. Jay also reflects on his own journey of overcoming anxiety and the mindset shifts that foster growth and resilience.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Reduce Stress and Anxiety Through Breathwork

How to Use Movement to Improve Brain Health

How to Identify Your Personal Stress Cues

How to Build Resilience After Trauma

How to Create a Morning Routine for Mental Clarity

How to Foster Meaningful Social Connections for Brain Health

Instead of letting stress and anxiety control you, start taking small, intentional steps to rewire your mind for resilience, clarity, and joy.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:11 Get to Know the Brain's Potential

02:10 What Makes a Healthy Brain?

04:35 The Complexity of the Brain

06:12 Scientific Difference Between Anxiety and Stress

09:42 Breathing Techniques for Anxiety

15:36 The Dangers of Chronic Stress

17:34 Protect Your Brain from Stress and Anxiety

19:38 What's Your Morning Routine?

21:39 Exercise Promotes Better Brain Function

23:36 Staying Focused Takes Effort

26:34 Start Small to Build a Habit

28:38 Everyday Anxiety Versus Anxiety Disorder

33:05 How to Look at Anxiety Differently

36:24 Approaching Grief with Positivity

40:03 How Resilient is the Brain?

42:57 Emotional Trauma 

45:19 Can We Resilience Against Trauma?

47:29 The Joy Conditioning

52:32 The Classic Growth Mindset

57:13 What Happens in the Brain During Healing 

01:00:20 The 5 Pillars of Better Brain Health

01:05:48 Find a Natural Place of Community Gathering

01:07:43 Develop the Love for Learning

01:11:37 Your Brain is Beautiful

01:14:04 Does Positive Affirmation Work?

01:15:05 4 Things That Make Memories Stick

01:19:35 How to Strengthen Your Memory

01:20:47 Wendy on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Wendy Suzuki | Website

Wendy Suzuki | Flickr

Wendy Suzuki | Instagram 

Wendy Suzuki | Facebook 

Wendy Suzuki | LinkedIn

Good Anxiety: Harnessing the Power of the Most Misunderstood Emotion

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What’s a recent rejection you faced?

What keeps you going after rejection?

Today, Jay takes us inside the iHeart Studio at the Doha Web Summit for a candid, unfiltered conversation with his best friend of nearly two decades, Nanda. Nanda joins Jay for an impromptu discussion that takes us on a journey through their friendship, personal growth, and the pivotal moments that have shaped their lives.

Jay and Nanda reflect on the transitions that defined them—from Jay’s life as a monk and the challenges of reintegration into the corporate world, to Nanda’s bold decision to leave his successful career in law to pursue his true passion. They dive deep into the importance of humility, resilience, and self-awareness, sharing powerful lessons on navigating failure, taking risks, and reinventing oneself with purpose.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Overcome Career Transitions and Reinvent Yourself

How to Handle Failure and Rejection with Resilience

How to Develop a Winner’s Mindset Without Burnout

How to Balance Ambition with Spirituality

How to Make Big Life Decisions with Confidence

Your journey is unfolding exactly as it should—every challenge, every transition, and every unexpected twist is shaping you into the person you're meant to become.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:13 19 Years of Friendship

04:05 How It Feels to Restart Your life

07:12 The Beast Mindset

09:30 Humans Function in 2 Ways

12:38 Taking a Risk for a Career Shift

19:00 Failure to Success Mindset

21:35 Start Investing in Yourself

24:55 How to Raise Resilient Kids

27:50 Your Life Becomes the Stories

31:48 Navigating Male Friendships

36:19 The Winner's Mindset

38:39 Living in the Spirit of Gratitude

42:04 Pause to Celebrate Success

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Have you ever avoided looking at your finances?

If money were a person, how would you describe your relationship with it?

Today, Jay welcomes back his long time friend, Lewis Howes, a New York Times bestselling author, entrepreneur, keynote speaker, and former professional athlete. He is the host of The School of Greatness podcast, one of the top-ranked business and self-development shows in the world, where he interviews some of the most influential leaders in business, wellness, and personal growth.

The conversation highlights key principles for transforming one's financial mindset, including the power of awareness, gratitude, and generosity. Jay and Lewis examine how early experiences with money influence current financial behaviors and emphasize the importance of developing a mindset of abundance rather than scarcity. By recognizing and reshaping these beliefs, financial opportunities can be approached with clarity and confidence.

Lewis emphasizes on the distinction between making money easy and chasing easy money. While many seek quick financial success, they explore the pitfalls of short-term thinking and the long-term benefits of building sustainable wealth through skill development, strategic planning, and emotional resilience. The concept of mapping out financial goals is introduced as a way to create structure and direction in money management.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Identify and Change Your Money Beliefs

How to Develop Awareness Around Your Financial Habits

How to Shift from a Scarcity Mindset to an Abundance Mindset

How to Invest in Yourself to Build Long-Term Financial Success

How to Create a Clear Financial Plan for Stability and Growth

How to Use Energy, Passion, and Curiosity as Valuable Currency

Financial freedom isn’t just about earning more—it’s about breaking free from limiting beliefs, embracing abundance, and making intentional choices that align with long-term success. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:06 Awareness Around Money and Finances

06:23 How to Get Out of Debt

09:44 How to Attract Financial Abundance

14:28 Rewire Your Brain to Earn More Money

16:22 The Mindset Habit to Unlock Abundance

20:11 Create an Opportunity to Showcase Your Value

27:08 3 Skills to Create Valuable Connection

33:41 Building a Foundation for Your Dream Career

35:44 Can You Manifest Money?

41:01 What’s Your Relationship with Money?

48:32 Generosity Attracts Abundance

53:10 Lessons from Quick and Easy Money

57:55 Invest in Your Self Growth

01:00:51 Money Cant Solve All Problems

Episode Resources:

Lewis Howes | Website

Lewis Howes | TikTok

Lewis Howes | Instagram 

Lewis Howes | Youtube

Lewis Howes | Facebook 

Lewis Howes | LinkedIn

Lewis Howes | X

Make Money Easy: Create Financial Freedom and Live a Richer Life

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What does success mean to you?

What’s one habit you think successful people have?

Today, Jay unpacks the hidden habits and mindset shifts that set the most successful people apart. Many of us believe that highly successful people are somehow different, that they possess unique talents or advantages we don’t. But it's actually about recognizing and mastering key patterns that most people overlook.

Jay also uncovers the hidden patterns and psychological principles that shape success, revealing how small mindset shifts can create massive impact. He explores the power of belief, the influence of focus, and the importance of letting go to make room for growth. With practical insights and thought-provoking perspectives, this episode will challenge the way you approach success and help you unlock new possibilities in your journey.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Recognize and Leverage Patterns for Success

How to Stop Wasting Time on the Wrong Things

How to Build Confidence by Observing Success Strategies

How to Reprogram Your Mindset for Growth and Achievement

Success isn’t reserved for a select few—it’s within your reach if you’re willing to shift your mindset, recognize patterns, and take intentional action. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:10 How to Become More Successful in Life?

03:50 Tip #1: Understand the Patterns

11:14 Tip #2: You’re Doing All the Wrong Things

17:24 Tip #3: Get Support from Someone Who Believes in You

21:39 Tip #4: The Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon

25:20 Tip #5:  Stop Measuring Your Success By Others' Timelines  

26:23 Tip #6: You Don’t Need Everyone to Like You

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Do you think telepathy is real?

Have you heard of non-speaking kids using telepathy?

What if non-speaking individuals with autism could communicate through telepathy — and science is starting to prove it?

In this episode of On Purpose with Jay Shetty, award-winning filmmaker Ky Dickens takes us on a groundbreaking journey, where non-speaking individuals discover they can communicate telepathically. Ky shares powerful stories of families uncovering untapped abilities in their loved ones, challenging traditional communication methods. As science begins to validate these experiences, the potential for a new, wordless form of connection unfolds.

Ky and Jay explore the intersection of science and spirituality, and why unlocking our own intuition may be more possible than we think. Don’t miss this episode!

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Develop Your Intuition and Deepen Consciousness

How to Communicate Telepathically with Non-Speaking Individuals

How to Support and Empower Non-Speaking Individuals with Autism

How to Create a More Inclusive World for People with Autism

How to Explore the Science of Telepathy and Consciousness

How to Embrace the Unknown and Shift Your Perception of Reality

By challenging our assumptions, we free ourselves from limiting beliefs and make space for new possibilities. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:55 The Social Justice Documentary Filmmaker

06:08 Testing the Theory of Telepathy

08:30 The Limitations of Autism

10:32 What is Apraxia?

11:52 Listening to a Non-Speaking Child

13:29 How Does Telepathy Works?

17:32 How Materialism Has Dictated Our Consciousness

19:41 Remote Viewing Using Psy Abilities

26:19 Telepathic Links Based on Love

29:02 Savant Skills: Extra Sensory Perception (ESP)

33:09 All Truth Goes Through Three Stages

35:26 Consciousness Sharing is More than Telepathy

40:35 Finding Your Life's Purpose

45:00 Science is Catching Up with Spirituality

49:57 Resistance Against Positive Change

51:40 Telepathy is Real

55:16 How Telepathy Works in Animals

57:47 Communication is Basic Human Right

01:03:12 Daily Magic of Telepathy

01:05:04 The Mental Telegraphy

01:06:58 Telepathic Dreams and Lucid Dreaming

01:08:36 Telepathic Conversations

01:11:15 Connection Through the Hill

01:14:15 Apraxia: The Mind and Body Disconnect

01:16:55 Exploration of the Consciousness  

01:20:26 Ethical Approach to Studying Non-Speakers

01:25:39 Lessons From The Telepathy Tapes  

Episode Resources:

Ky Dickens | Website

Ky Dickens | X

Ky Dickens | Instagram 

Ky Dickens | LinkedIn

Ky Dickens | IMDB

The Telepathy Tapes

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How do you usually start your mornings?

Do you wake up feeling tired?

Today, Jay discusses why a well-crafted morning routine doesn’t just jump start your day but sets the tone for success. He begins by emphasizing that how you spend your mornings shapes the rest of your day. A mindful start can boost focus, energy, and resilience. Rather than reaching for coffee first thing, Jay suggests hydrating with a glass of water infused with sea salt and lemon to kickstart hydration and replenish essential minerals. 

Movement is another essential pillar for a successful day. Jay recommends incorporating a short burst of explosive activity. The episode wraps up with two powerful mindfulness practices: reverse gratitude, where you reflect on three things you’d hate to lose, and the first bite ritual, where you take a slow, intentional bite of your first meal while focusing on gratitude.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Properly Hydrate in the Morning

How to Structure Your Morning Routine

How to Build Confidence

How to Find Your Inspiration Habit

As you work on cultivating a powerful morning routine, remember that personal growth is an ongoing journey. Embrace the challenges along the way, knowing that each step brings you closer to a more focused, energized, and fulfilling life.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:41 How to Set Your Day for Success

04:56 Step 1: Do the Dopamine Detox

09:14 Step 2: Let Morning Light Wake You Up

11:35 Step 3: The Cold Shock Reset

14:18 Step 4: The One Move Power Shift

18:13 Step 5: The Reverse Gratitude Shift

19:49 Step 6: The First Bite Ritual

22:20 Step 7: The Future You Signal

26:12 T.I.M.E. - The 4-Step Morning Routine

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What do you think is the biggest dating mistake people make?

Have you ever chased someone who wasn’t right for you?

Today, in this special compilation episode, we explore all things love - how people navigate it, where they go wrong, and how they can cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections. Through a collection of thought-provoking conversations, Jay Shetty and his guests offer insight and practical advice to help listeners build healthier relationships.

Each guest shares their unique approach to manifesting genuine love, highlighting the importance of being present in relationships, breaking free from unhealthy patterns, and shifting focus from seeking external validation to building self-worth. Heartbreak is reframed as a powerful opportunity for growth, with the reminder that love is not something to chase, but something to nurture within, allowing the right connections to come naturally.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Know if Someone Is Wasting Your Time

How to Do the Work to Prepare for a Relationship 

How to Get Out of the Cycle of Seeking External Validation

How to Reframe Settling as a Positive Choice in Love    

How to Turn Pain into a Source of Growth and Learning

The path to finding love is not easy, but every step matters. By learning from your past, committing to personal growth, and approaching love with an open heart, you create the space for deeper, more fulfilling connections. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty.

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What We Discuss: 

00:00 Intro 

00:45 How to Know if Someone is Wasting Your Time

03:29 Is It Real Connection or Just Chemistry?

06:26 Am I Behind in Love?

08:59 Why Is Developing Self Awareness Difficult?

13:19 How to Attract the Right Relationship

15:55 How to Manifest Love

17:56 Have You Found the Right Person?

24:43 Letting Go Might Be an Answer

28:58 How to Love Fully Without Losing Yourself

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What do you think is the biggest dating mistake people make?

Have you ever chased someone who wasn’t right for you?

In today’s episode, Jay welcomes relationship coach, teacher, and podcast host Jillian Turecki to break down the biggest dating mistakes people make. They dive into why relying too much on dating apps can lead to burnout, how the fear of rejection holds you back, and why being single is often better than staying in the wrong relationship.

Jillian unpacks why we’re drawn to people who don’t want us while ignoring those who do. She explains how past relationship patterns, toxic dynamics, and a false sense of intimacy create cycles that keep us stuck. They also explore the fine line between honesty and oversharing, how to repair trust after dishonesty, and self-reflection exercises to heal after a breakup.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

The 3 biggest dating mistakes and how to fix them.

Why relying on dating apps alone can hurt your love life.

How the fear of rejection and loneliness affect attraction.

Why do we chase people who ignore us?

When honesty becomes oversharing in relationships.

How to repair trust and reflect after a breakup.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating or struggled with attraction patterns, this episode will help you break unhealthy cycles and make better choices in love.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty.

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What We Discuss: 

00:00 Intro 

02:03 Dating: 3 Biggest Mistakes

05:39 The Fear Of Rejection 

09:47 Choice In Love

13:36 The Fear Of Being Alone

14:41 The Attraction Paradox

21:37 It All Begins With You

32:00 Find Other Things Attractive

42:48 Telling The Truth Vs Being Too Honest

46:45 Repair Not Being Truthful In A Relationship

56:30 Choice In Love 2

01:01:10 It's All In Your Head

01:04:52 Reflect With Your Partner

01:09:14 Self Reflection Exercises After A Breakup

01:12:13 Jillian on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Jillian Turecki | It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life

Jillian Turecki | Linkedin

Jillian Turecki | Website

Jillian Turecki | YouTube

Jillian Turecki | Instagram

Jillian Turecki | Facebook

Jillian Turecki | Tiktok

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Are you holding onto a breakup that’s draining your energy?

Do you ever catch yourself replaying old memories or struggling to move on after a breakup?

Today, Jay will break down a powerful 30-day No Contact Reinvention Challenge designed to help you heal, grow, and rebuild your confidence. If you’ve ever felt lost, stuck, or unsure how to move forward, this episode is your guide to turning heartbreak into transformation.

Jay reveals practical steps to help you shift your focus, break emotional patterns, and create a new version of yourself—one that is stronger, wiser, and more fulfilled. From cutting out breakup songs and sad movies to replacing old habits with new adventures, this challenge is all about reclaiming your life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to Let Go of the Past and Reinvent Yourself.

The Five-Text Rule to Overcome the Urge to Reach Out.

Why Changing Your Routine Helps You Heal Faster.

How to Stop Overthinking and Find Closure Within Yourself.

A Simple 90-Day Reflection Strategy to See How Far You’ve Come.

Heartbreak is painful, but it doesn’t have to define you. It’s time to take control of your healing journey and create the life you truly deserve.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What we discuss: 

00:00 Intro 

03:18 30-Day No Contact Re-Invention Challenge

04:34 Day 1-5: Break Patterns From the Relationship

07:32 Day 6-1: Body Reset, Break Your Own Patterns

09:07 Day 11-15: Social Reset, The 5 Text Rule

17:03 Day 16-20: Change Your Mind, The Reverse Bucket List

23:31 Day 21-25: Do Something You’ve Never Done Before

23:59 Day 26-30: Reflection Phase, Set a 90-Day Reminder

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